Lessons from Things Fall Apart
Found the time to read Things Fall Apart again, and I've come to realize that sometimes, the most painful mistakes aren’t made out of hatred, but out of fear. Ikemefuna didn’t die because he was evil or guilty. He was killed because people were too afraid to question tradition and too afraid to be seen as weak. I feel that blind obedience can make [even good] people do terrible things. Toxic ideas of masculinity taught a man to silence his heart just to prove strength, because I still can't fathom why Okonkwo needed to be involved in Ikemefuna's killing to the point that it was he who hacked the poor boy to death, despite being told not to participate because Ikemefuna called him father. It makes you wonder: how many times do we do things we know are wrong, just to fit in, just to look strong, just to avoid being judged, forgetting that true courage sometimes lies in compassion?